MUCH and MORE.....

It's not how MUCH we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happy to live MORE.

Challenges are the second phase of LIFE. Correction does much, but encouragement does more. Corrections  can improve oneself but it will work till some extended that can be temporary solution but encouragement is a long lasting. Which help oneself to grow to next level. 

Each and everything can be bearable till a end point. It's fact that much can push but more can help to reach out goals. It's impossible to measure before but after you realized that it's really "too much" which wasn't  needed for that thing. Sometime unknowingly or knowingly these mistake happened to make more. Having much ability to accomplish and you expecting more fro yourself and the end result leads to disappointment. 

But I've learnt,

It is must for kick where you can learn many things, it increases your willpower which help you to do cross the challenges of your life. Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. 

I've  decided to fly through 

the air and live in the sunlight 

and enjoy life as much as I could.

    

Willpower....

Imagine with all your mind......Believe with all your heart..... Achieve with all your Strength.....!!!!. It's a key to success.

"I cannot change what will happen..!!! but,  I can  change how I act on and face it..."

Willpower is a thing which works more than any medicine, with but few exceptions, it's take courage who wins through pure willpower. 

so, far I've experienced 

Willpower can be  obtained in some ways 

by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. It's based on love in a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment. You'r doing great with your work but suddenly because of some accident you halted and you felt "Why Me...????"  but if you take it in positive way you will find possibilities to accomplish your goal..!!!

Sometime in certain situation only you'r the person who having solution for yourself, where the whole world is silent, only your willpower is a solution for that. If you believe in yourself and have dedication and pride and never quit attitude, you'll be a winner. Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith on your own dreams. Vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe.

Maybe it was the challenge of flight, the opportunity to fly, the competition in the world
and the inspiration and discipline. these things help to develop a dedication and inspired to get ahead.

I take inspiration from each and everyone and everything. form champions, true competitors, people dedicated to their dream, hard workers, dreamers, believers, achievers, eventhough from failures and challenges to. which enhanced thoughts and strengthen to take firm decisions. Surround yourself with those people who genuinely can help you, who dedicated to build something isn't a one-man show. It's more important to have smart people who really believe in what you're doing than really experienced people who may not share your dream. 

"Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach......"

SITUATIONS.... makes person

SITUATIONS..!!! are the reason for everything, No one is right or wrong in this world but the situations makes the person to take decisions and sometime person creates situations which makes him/her.

Self-reflection or Self-analyzing is so healthy, generally works for me - when I record the details of what I'm going through, whether it's a relationship issue or negative thoughts, I can look back and see how far I've come. It makes me to see my progress and how I got through a situation. 

so far I've learnt,

"When we are no longer able to change a situation - we are challenged to change ourselves...."

Something happens and we blame other people for us not being happy or satisfied or fulfilled. So the point is, we all have possible choices, and we make the choice to accept people or situations or to not accept situations. In any kind of situation you can't blame a single person. Letting go some situations helps us to to live in a more peaceful state of mind if it's not belong to you and helps restore balance. It makes others to be responsible for themselves and for us to take our hands off situations from situation. This frees us from unnecessary stress. but learning from that is very essential.

I've learned the lesson that,

When you're in the middle of something that seems very emotionally attached with, or you're in a situation and it seems like it's the end of the world or whatever, then you learn that it's not, because it actually strengthen you to take strong decisions to yourself.

Each and every person can take the biggest lessons from angry situations where actually you aren't, in life have probably come from a bad situation,  even if  wasn't the one who was angry. 

I'm pretty sure, There's a time in your life where you're not quite sure where you are. You think everything's perfect, but it's not perfect...!!!!. Then one day you wake up and analyze the entire situation and you can't imagine picture yourself in the you're in. Never permit a anonymous to rule your life, take your own decisions by understanding the situations or by consulting someone who can understands you or who already had been gone through such kind of situation you'r in.  Look for a situation in which your work  will give you as much happiness as your spare time.

How you can understand any kind of situation...???

Take the time to discover your real intention before you act. If it is to change someone or the world so that you will feel safe or better about yourself, don't act on it, because it is an intention of fear and can create only painful consequences. But..!!!

"the secret is, if you can picture yourself doing anything in life, you can do it..."

 

FATHER .....my super hero

Father, when I decided to write blog on this topic, felt shortage of words to summarized and first time ever I need to go though some references.

He is a one who taught me to value myself. He told me that I was uncommonly beautiful and that I was the most precious thing in his life and I know that I will never find my father in any other man who comes into my life, because it is a viable in my life that can only be filled by him.

Father-Daughter love had a charge to it that generally was both permitted and gratify. There was just something so beautiful about the father complementing the little girl. Bigness and lilness together at last—yet the bigness would never hurt the l'ilness..!!!. It respected it. In a world in which big always crushes l'il one but, this bigness never hurt lil one. You couldn’t help but think of your own father as you saw your little girl with hers.

One of the greatest things about daughters is how they adored when they were little. how they rushed into your arms with electric delight and demanded what they wanted. Do and listen to everything they say. Those memories will help you through less joyful times and his appreciations for small small achievements then feel like really "I Achieved something big".

There is no kind of affection so purely divine as of a father to a daughter.

In love like husband to wives there is desire; 

to son's, ambition....

but to daughters there is something which there are no words to express.

when you were little princess for him, you shared all things with him from mom's gossips to friends, he was also used to expressed his love and affection, but once you grownup, I'm sure you feel it....

"A father’s tears and fears are unseen, 

his love is unexpressed, 

but what remain same that is his care and protection

 which are as a pillar of strength throughout our lives..."

I want to say, "that, no man I ever met will be my father’s equal, and I would never love any other man as much...".

Thank you papa..!!! :)

Bliss

EXTRAORDINARY.... need some more

"Extraordinary" It's needed lot of dedication and passion to be extraordinary which defines personality among  innumerable, who working to achieve goals but with different thoughts plans and ideas, which characterized yourself. 

"To Become
EXTRAORDINARY
It need some EXTRA..."

But what exactly meant to be  "EXTRA", is there any dressing sense or materialistic things......???? absolutely NOT...!!!. 

Human body blessed with very precious and essential artefact that is "Brain". which is mostly use for studies, solving issues of own life, gossip, blaming for unreasonable stuff and on. Is really god stated this brain only for this kind of things...???. think on it...!!!.

The extraordinary person which can think from each and every aspect, who strive for opportunities, who knows importance of life, who ready to face each and every challenge, who never works to become extraordinary, but to be a Rockstar in his/her own life.

How you will add some EXTRA in your ORDINARY life, Here is a answer....!!!!

Above I specified about precious artefact, He(god) stated  similar in each of us, But what makes a difference, that are your "THOUGHTS". Your thoughts defines you, moreover your entire LIFE depend on it. Your thoughts either construct you or destroy you. Your ACTION depends on thoughts which speaks more than words. Which can add essence to your work.

For Example- Why we remind SIR APJ ABDUL KALAM, because of his inventions or he was a president...????? 

absolutely NOT..!!. 

But because of his thoughts, where each of us dreamt for great ans secure future. He gave us dreams for better world to LIVE not survive. These Attitudes and Thoughts made him greatest
"LEADER OF THE ERA". 

The moment you have in 

your heart this extraordinary 

thing called your own thoughts,

the delight, the elation of it, 

you will discover that for 

 to transform the 

WORLD to be better place.