"Politeness" it change the human thought process, it force mind to think twice. you studied the story called "Tit for Tat" human mind also similar as this. If anyone hurts you. you thought same thing to do with that person, if we think essentially then what is difference between you and another one ?????. Change according to situation and it must needed its called adjustment. Everyone like quality modifications in life. No one think to hurt intentionally,undoubtedly some reasoning are their. But before making any alterations in conducts oneself think twice because its not matter for that particular span it demonstrate(reflects) on your entire "LIFE". Our mind once made any perspective it flows on that directions only, then it is very difficult to changes its orientation.
Before a day, was returning from college as always their was so much mob. I saw Ticket Conductor asking politely everyone for ticket. Senior citizen was setting their and his wife sited after four seats. Ticket conductor came and asked him for ticket, but..!!! pensioner not responds..!!! again he asked. Repeatedly tried for three times. But when responds and said,"my wife will collect ticket" he smile and go back to that pensioner's wife for ticket, without any "negative comment" he just politely doing his work. when he came to me I tender him 6 rupee change and he kindly said, "Thank you Madam" for this. Felt so happy because before this I had some negative experiences and suddenly my views are changed. I take lessons from this. That never apply identical sentiment for each person because personalities and persons are also different. Don't change according to situation be yourself. Make modification but with good origin. Their is huge difference between imitation and Politeness.
Sometime we felt their is no need to polite but just avoid this thought be polite and definitely you will experienced something new.
****This are two small words which defines your personality****
Politeness is a wish to be treated as politely, and to be admire sophisticatedly.
Being polite is the blossom of humanity...........
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